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Leaving is okay!

People leave all the time. But what hurts like hell is when the person who made you feel so special yesterday, makes you feel so unwanted today.   Never express too much love, affection or care to someone, Because it's human tendency to underestimate anything that's free of cost.

⭕️ Definition of I love you.

"l love you" means that I accept you for the person that you are and that I don't wish to change you into someone else. It means that I don't expect perfection from you; just as you don't expect it from me. It means that I'll love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you when you’re in a bad mood and to tired to do the things I want. It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you're fun to be with. " I love you" means that I know your deepest secrets if you'll let me and don’t judge you for them, asking in return only that you do not judge me for mine. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and I love you enough to not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing only you, and knowing that you feel the same way for me. There of course is always more. But somethings are just harder to put in words.

Great Relationships

Good relationships don't just happen. They take time, patience and two people getting through all the hard times together. You don’t look for somebody else or leave when it gets hard. What else will someone give you that you can’t already find with the person you are with? They are your person. Treat them as such.

Take care of your heart. Part 2

Make a room for the people who deserve to have a spot in your life. Fight for the people who will lead you closer to the One who will fill the void in your heart. You may not know them yet but when you do, keep them. Allow yourself to feel what true love is from genuine people. -Stif 

Take care of your heart. Part 1

Let go of all the people who play with it. The ones who don't know how to handle it. The ones who took advantage of it and recklessly pierced it into pieces. Let go of those who see your kindness as weakness and take advantage of it. Let go of them so you can fully see and appreciate your worth. -Stif

Broken Heart Syndrome. Part 6

  But now, she wanted to be alone. She wanted to escape from reality that she’s broken. She wanted to run away, away from everyone. She wanted to hide and she doesn’t want anyone to see her tear falling through her face, she doesn’t want her friends to see her cry like a baby, she doesn’t want her parents to worry about her thinking why is their daughter crying, because she doesn’t want them sad.     -Stif

Broken Heart Syndrome. Part 5

And there she realized, she can’t anymore feel the feeling of being in love because she was too damaged; too wrecked; and she need to find herself. She needs time for her to be able to feel in love again. She wanted to be alone. She wanted to forget and so to keep moving forward until she’s ready. Until she’s ready to love again. And she promised that when it happens, she’s willing to take risks once again to someone. Someone who is deserving of her love. Someone who is worth it. She is willing to give her heart again, to have it broken by someone worth it.   -Stif

Broken Heart Syndrome. Part 4

Years passed and all she did was to give love to herself. And now that there is someone who is more than willing to give his heart to her, she turned him down. Because she’s afraid she can’t give back the love he’s giving. Because her heart isn’t beating like before. It isn’t beating fast as before.   -Stif

Broken Heart Syndrome Part 3

  But then he kept on coming back and kept on stepping down on her. He kept on breaking her heart until she felt numb. And all she can do is to cry herself every night she had a memory of him. Her scars were so deep and she was empty over and over again. She’s now afraid of the idea of being in love. -Stif

Broken Heart Syndrome. Part 2

  She was full of love not until she was damaged. All she did before was to give him love and what left her was nothing. She begged for his love but she had nothing. She stood up even though he’s pulling her down. She picked her broken pieces and still had a positive outlook about love. -Stif

Broken Heart Syndrome. Part 1

  She was hurt a thousand of times already yet you would see her laughing with her friends like nothing ever happened. She is still the same person, laughing over silly things, telling corny jokes and being optimist all the time. But everything has changed when he broke her. - Stif

We Actually Do!

 We want someone to hold our hands but we don’t want to put the power to hurt us in their hands. When things get too close, we run, we hide, we leave, we say to ourselves  “ t here’s more fish in the sea ” . We want a downloadable person that’s a perfect fit, just like an app you can update whenever there’s a hitch compartmentalised into a folder that we can delete when we have no more need for it. See, the challenge is we all want to be with someone who makes us happy when what we need is to be someone who makes us happy . Because the problem of our generation not wanting relationships is that at the end of the day, we actually do ! Follow Jay Shetty