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  You are capable of more than you can ever imagine. When life presses in on you the hardest, that is when your breakthrough is near. Press on. Do not stop to think about the work you have to do. Just put yourself on auto-pilot. Hold yourself to a higher standard daily.  Your family, friends and co-workers all look to you for their cues.  Be mindful to lift the vibration in every room you enter. Treat yourself to a higher belief system. Trust and let go.  Greatness is in your DNA.  God don’t make junk. Each day you have a new chance to develop new ideas, reach for new goals and conquer new mountains.  Chase down your dream like it is the last bus of the night. Go get it! You have something special.  You have Greatness within you!!                                

How do you survive when life gets tough? How do you hang on when you are grieving, lonely or broke? You can only tackle your problems as you would climb a mountain, If you go rock climbing and you get stuck on a ledge, you suddenly focus on the present moment! You forget about the future.  All your effort goes into your next step.  Then your next step. Inch by inch.  Eventually you claw your way out. The same strategy works for everyday life.  When things seem desperate, you fix your focus on the present moment.  You tackle one problem at a time.  You take a step. You get a little confidence and take another step, and another. Eventually you find that the worst is over.  But you can handle one day at a time. And whenever 24 hours is too tough, bite off five minutes at a time.

People leave all the time. But what hurts like hell is when the person who made you feel so special yesterday, makes you feel so unwanted today.   Never express too much love, affection or care to someone, Because it's human tendency to underestimate anything that's free of cost.

You’ll notice something about most happy people , they've overcome serious setbacks. Happy people sometimes go broke, get sick, get sacked or get dumped! Like everyone, happy people have their problems.  But they have the mental strength to focus on solutions . They have developed “mental fitness” . Mental fitness is like physical fitness .  You strengthen your MUSCLES with exercise.You run uphill.  Gradually you get stronger. It is the same with your thinking. You strengthen your MIND by facing problems . STRUGGLE builds STRENGTH . You don’t get strong by hiding under the bed. You meet life head on. You take some risks. You fail and bounce back. Day by day you gain confidence.  Gradually you build a positive attitude. When life gets rough , remind yourself: “This is making me mentally fit.  I must be getting happier."

"l love you" means that I accept you for the person that you are and that I don't wish to change you into someone else. It means that I don't expect perfection from you; just as you don't expect it from me. It means that I'll love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you when you’re in a bad mood and to tired to do the things I want. It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you're fun to be with. " I love you" means that I know your deepest secrets if you'll let me and don’t judge you for them, asking in return only that you do not judge me for mine. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and I love you enough to not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing only you, and knowing that you feel the same way for me. There of course is always more. But somethings are just harder to put in words.

This is a great truth, one of the greatest.  The first of the “  Four Noble Truths ” which Buddha taught was “Life is suffering.”   It is a great truth because once we truly  see this truth, we transcend it.  Once we truly know that life is difficult, Once we truly understand and accept it,  then life is no longer difficult.  Life is a series of problems .  Do we want to moan about them or solve them? Do we want to teach our children to solve them?  Discipline  is the basic set of tools  we require to solve life’s problems.  Without discipline, we cannot solve anything. With only some discipline we can solve only some problems. With total discipline we can solve all problems.  What makes life difficult is that,  the process of confronting and solving problems is a painful one.  Problems, depending upon th...

Thoughts shapes our actions. Actions shapes us. Guide your thoughts. 

You were born to be the maker of your own world, creator of your own destiny.

  A psychopath can tell what you’re thinking but what they don’t do is feel what you feel. These are people without a conscience.  ―Robert D. Hare

  Despite the psychopath's lack of conscience and lack of empathy for others, he is inevitably better at fooling people than any other type of offender.   ― Anna Salter

Not everything is a teachable moment.

 "We are never deceived; we deceive ourselves." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Do not let the world make you become jaded because you are meant to become a diamond. This world may go against you but that won't make you less of a person. Your heart is worth guarding for. Your heart is worth fighting for.   -Stif

Make a room for the people who deserve to have a spot in your life. Fight for the people who will lead you closer to the One who will fill the void in your heart. You may not know them yet but when you do, keep them. Allow yourself to feel what true love is from genuine people. -Stif 

Let go of all the people who play with it. The ones who don't know how to handle it. The ones who took advantage of it and recklessly pierced it into pieces. Let go of those who see your kindness as weakness and take advantage of it. Let go of them so you can fully see and appreciate your worth. -Stif

 Struggle is more important than outcome. Never quit. Yes to never quit. Struggle is more important than outcome? Results? If you are a billionaire you figured out  you would have to take a lick and keep on ticking and still achieve positive outcomes.

  But now, she wanted to be alone. She wanted to escape from reality that she’s broken. She wanted to run away, away from everyone. She wanted to hide and she doesn’t want anyone to see her tear falling through her face, she doesn’t want her friends to see her cry like a baby, she doesn’t want her parents to worry about her thinking why is their daughter crying, because she doesn’t want them sad.     -Stif

And there she realized, she can’t anymore feel the feeling of being in love because she was too damaged; too wrecked; and she need to find herself. She needs time for her to be able to feel in love again. She wanted to be alone. She wanted to forget and so to keep moving forward until she’s ready. Until she’s ready to love again. And she promised that when it happens, she’s willing to take risks once again to someone. Someone who is deserving of her love. Someone who is worth it. She is willing to give her heart again, to have it broken by someone worth it.   -Stif

Years passed and all she did was to give love to herself. And now that there is someone who is more than willing to give his heart to her, she turned him down. Because she’s afraid she can’t give back the love he’s giving. Because her heart isn’t beating like before. It isn’t beating fast as before.   -Stif

  But then he kept on coming back and kept on stepping down on her. He kept on breaking her heart until she felt numb. And all she can do is to cry herself every night she had a memory of him. Her scars were so deep and she was empty over and over again. She’s now afraid of the idea of being in love. -Stif