We want someone to hold our hands but we don’t want to put the power to hurt us in their hands. When things get too close, we run, we hide, we leave, we say to ourselves “ t here’s more fish in the sea ” . We want a downloadable person that’s a perfect fit, just like an app you can update whenever there’s a hitch compartmentalised into a folder that we can delete when we have no more need for it. See, the challenge is we all want to be with someone who makes us happy when what we need is to be someone who makes us happy . Because the problem of our generation not wanting relationships is that at the end of the day, we actually do ! Follow Jay Shetty