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Great Relationships

Good relationships don't just happen. They take time, patience and two people getting through all the hard times together. You don’t look for somebody else or leave when it gets hard. What else will someone give you that you can’t already find with the person you are with? They are your person. Treat them as such.

Take care of your heart. Part 2

Make a room for the people who deserve to have a spot in your life. Fight for the people who will lead you closer to the One who will fill the void in your heart. You may not know them yet but when you do, keep them. Allow yourself to feel what true love is from genuine people. -Stif 

Take care of your heart. Part 1

Let go of all the people who play with it. The ones who don't know how to handle it. The ones who took advantage of it and recklessly pierced it into pieces. Let go of those who see your kindness as weakness and take advantage of it. Let go of them so you can fully see and appreciate your worth. -Stif

Important Things Before Pains

 Struggle is more important than outcome. Never quit. Yes to never quit. Struggle is more important than outcome? Results? If you are a billionaire you figured out  you would have to take a lick and keep on ticking and still achieve positive outcomes.

Broken Heart Syndrome. Part 6

  But now, she wanted to be alone. She wanted to escape from reality that she’s broken. She wanted to run away, away from everyone. She wanted to hide and she doesn’t want anyone to see her tear falling through her face, she doesn’t want her friends to see her cry like a baby, she doesn’t want her parents to worry about her thinking why is their daughter crying, because she doesn’t want them sad.     -Stif

Broken Heart Syndrome. Part 5

And there she realized, she can’t anymore feel the feeling of being in love because she was too damaged; too wrecked; and she need to find herself. She needs time for her to be able to feel in love again. She wanted to be alone. She wanted to forget and so to keep moving forward until she’s ready. Until she’s ready to love again. And she promised that when it happens, she’s willing to take risks once again to someone. Someone who is deserving of her love. Someone who is worth it. She is willing to give her heart again, to have it broken by someone worth it.   -Stif

Broken Heart Syndrome. Part 4

Years passed and all she did was to give love to herself. And now that there is someone who is more than willing to give his heart to her, she turned him down. Because she’s afraid she can’t give back the love he’s giving. Because her heart isn’t beating like before. It isn’t beating fast as before.   -Stif

Broken Heart Syndrome Part 3

  But then he kept on coming back and kept on stepping down on her. He kept on breaking her heart until she felt numb. And all she can do is to cry herself every night she had a memory of him. Her scars were so deep and she was empty over and over again. She’s now afraid of the idea of being in love. -Stif

Broken Heart Syndrome. Part 2

  She was full of love not until she was damaged. All she did before was to give him love and what left her was nothing. She begged for his love but she had nothing. She stood up even though he’s pulling her down. She picked her broken pieces and still had a positive outlook about love. -Stif

Broken Heart Syndrome. Part 1

  She was hurt a thousand of times already yet you would see her laughing with her friends like nothing ever happened. She is still the same person, laughing over silly things, telling corny jokes and being optimist all the time. But everything has changed when he broke her. - Stif

Ego

You can love a person and at the same time realize that you just can't fuck with them anymore. You can miss that person even as you've accepted the fact that you don't want them back. You don't have to hate a person to leave them. Sometimes you go because your love for self is more significant than your desire to put up with their bull shit. Sometimes choosing yourself and your peace of mind means walking away from the people you thought you needed.
 Delayed gratification is real. Reward yourself when you deserve it. Stop awarding yourself when you’ve achieved nothing. Follow Us

The Wait is Over!

  "You don’t have to wait for a new start. Start over next week. Start over tomorrow morning. Start now.   Life is too short to wait for the perfect moment to make changes. The perfect moment is the one you choose."

We Actually Do!

 We want someone to hold our hands but we don’t want to put the power to hurt us in their hands. When things get too close, we run, we hide, we leave, we say to ourselves  “ t here’s more fish in the sea ” . We want a downloadable person that’s a perfect fit, just like an app you can update whenever there’s a hitch compartmentalised into a folder that we can delete when we have no more need for it. See, the challenge is we all want to be with someone who makes us happy when what we need is to be someone who makes us happy . Because the problem of our generation not wanting relationships is that at the end of the day, we actually do ! Follow Jay Shetty

Her Beauty

 She was beautiful but not like those girls in the magazines. She was beautiful for the way she thought. She was beautiful for that sparkle in her eyes when she talked about something she loved. She was beautiful for her ability to make other people smile even if she was sad. No, she wasn’t beautiful for something as temporary as her looks. She was beautiful deep down to her Soul. Follow Us

Don’t let the Rough Days Get You.

 On particularly rough days, when I wonder how I can possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through rough days so far is 100%, and that’s pretty good. If you do what is easy, life will be hard. If you do what is hard, life will be easy.